To me it is a real challenge, things like:
He: Think traveling overseas a waste of money & annual leave. Would rather spent the same amount/more on gadgets!
She: Treasure The once-a-year overseas/local traveling which opens the mind, recharge the soul.
He: Sending kids to their interest(piano, ballet,etc) a waste of time & money(for parents) Would rather spent the same amount/more on gadgets!
She: Believes in nurturing the kids' interest. A good investment.
He: No noise from kids in the morning,night, afternoon cos there are ppl who are sleeping/napping.
She: Being noisy and chatty are natural and normal for kids. Simply have to bring them to right place to release the energy & explore.
He: Upon reaching home would be tv, iPad, HP games, laptop browsing till past midnight
She: Upon reach home, go thru' kids' homework, eat/prepare dinner, do laundry, do dishes, shower, fold clothes, play/read with the kids..collapse by midnite.
He: Finding job, main criteria is $. Nothing else matter.
She: Finding job, main criteria is distance, working hr, availability of flexi-hr, no. of annual leave, medical benefits for family, etc.
He: when having dates/appointment with buddies, just sit in front of tv and wait for time to leave the house.
She: when having buddy dates, first check if hubby availability to take care of the kids, not going out, check children's homework, remind dad to go thru homework with them, prepare their meals, complete the housework( mopping, cooking, laundry, hang clothes, washing dishes) before getting washed up to rush out for appointment.
Enough said, opposite attracts also bring much imbalance. Thus, the She has to learn to be accountable for her choices, let go and take good care of herself to keep her sanity and love alive daily.
What do you think?
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